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I can confirm from my own experiences that there is a substantial bias by men against A- and B- cup women. I had this realization a few years ago: oh! Then add in my age, being a parent, a non-drinker, yada, yada. I am all too aware that there are plenty of additional reasons to swipe left.
Once I let the pain and inconvenience of that sink in, I realized…. It is what it is.
I suppose they intimidate me, but I always pass on those guys. I prefer a lean guy not a bulked up guy. But I have a preference for fair, light-eyed, lean-ish Brits. I thought that was hilarious! No, I was never going to be his chick, but, sure, Random Online Dating Dude, by all means hold out for her! I suppose the bottom line is that we all have preferences!
I acknowledge that a small-chested women could get a boob job while a shorter man has no alternative to change his height. I have zero interest in getting cosmetic surgery, but admit that I tried the Brazilian Buttlift regimen. Yes, I still own the DVD, which is now collecting dust.
I will never have a pert Brazilian butt. I will always have my disproportionate-to-my-upper-body British butt. So in addition to being a middle-aged chick with a B-cup, I am blessed with a not-so-pert British bum. Shorter guys might be open to dating taller women who may or may not be interested in returnbut you vertically-challenged gents have your own deal-breakers or preferences about appearance, too.
Is being a shorter guy a dating obstacle? Is it fair or just? No way! Is it disheartening? Of course. This is particularly true for guys under 5'7". I am not making light of your reality! Please be assured that I am acknowledging the challenges for you! Are some women especially ones like me who are under 5'5" being a bit ridiculous for demanding to date guys ONLY above 6'? She specifically mentioned that women taller than 5'8" are ignored by many men.
Of course dating is hard for almost everyone! My advice is to:. Final thoughts : I sincerely have given this topic a lot of thought and my advice for shorter guys who are striking out online is to try meet-ups and other dating avenues offline. I think your other attributes might shine in person improving your chances for dating success.
Bonnie was off the dating market from when she met her now ex-husband till early She has been online dating on-and-off for over 4 years. She has gone out on at least first dates, interacted with over guys, and reviewed at least profiles. Additionally, Bonnie has dated guys ranging in height from 5'4" — 6'5", but acknowledges that 5'11" is her personal favorite height. She does not have a height requirement and regularly dates guys between 5'7" and 5'10".
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